Think & Grow Rich Lessons
Tuula Rands West Kelowna, British Columbia, Canada

Posted: 2021-06-20

On Nov.20, 2013 I wrote:


Chapter 4 – Autosuggestion

Hill states in this Chapter “Your subconscious mind recognizes and
acts upon only THOUGHTS which have been well mixed with emotion
Or feeling.”

When we were told to craft our personal self talk I crafted mine with the
things I needed to grow in personally in order to become the person
people would know, like and trust.  

So in my self Talk I used the words happy, confident and grateful. 
The dictionary says happy is feeling pleasure and enjoyment because 
of Your life and situation. 
Confident, the dictionary describes as “having a feeling or belief that you can do 
something well or succeed, and gratitude  is thankfulness.

I was happy doing Network Marketing but I lacked confidence in 

We have 10 calls each week where we learn what we need to do 
to build our business and in order to really grow and become that person
others want to be in business with we have to display confidence in 
what we do and have to offer.  If fear is there, confidence is not. 

I did not believe I had anything to contribute to the calls and believed I was
not able write lesson plans worth reading.  With that part I was not happy. 
So confidence was at the top of my list of characteristics I needed.

I wanted to acknowledge my gratefulness to God for He is the one 
who blesses me as I live my life and build my business according to His will by 
being a servant with a servants heart.
I wanted to be a positive example and influence.  Without confidence 
you cannot be a positive example or influence.  

As I began to say my self talk daily, believing and trusting with faith,
I began to change.  I forced myself to speak up on the calls, continued 
to write lesson plans and speak to people about my products and business. 
It took some time but eventually I gained confidence. 

I now speak up on the calls, I share my products and opportunity, 
and I contribute and share in my lesson plans what I learn from my heart. 
I now build my business knowing I cannot fail.

“I am happy, confident and grateful, for God is blessing me and I
Am a positive example and influence in all areas of my life.”

Self talk.  

What we say to ourselves is the biggest influence we have in our
lives.  We need to craft our self talk wisely.

Tuula Rands


Thomas Szasz - "People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself.
But the self is not something one finds, it is something one creates."