Ben Drake West Ryde, NSW, Australia
Persistence has played a big part in my own life; the main areas has been health and relationship. For many Years it was searching for a relationship just keeping on going. Keeping on seeking and learning to start loving who Ben was. For a long time growing up I never understood loving Ben first.
I also began to feel ashamed of my own body, being overweight, having asthma, reoccurring injuries, my back issues, along with having had epilepsy as a child. All this meant that needed to start to love Ben for who he was as a person. Stop letting the ones who cared about have an opinion when it became obvious that was needing to find those who really cared deeply.
The guy who really cares so much is myself, a guy who cares about so many in his life but still needs to learn to care more about himself rather than always letting friends and family have a say about my own choice.
For years I sought a partner, meet someone online and went to meet them it turned out that all they sought was sex that was all. From there meet a few others and ended up in another relationship which in the end was only seeking sex. So, from there I said to myself the next woman who I dated would be my wife for life. I meet Jenny 3 months after the previous relationship dissolved and the night that Jenny left her contact details was the same night, I got a call from my ex saying I have decided that I can no longer be your friend and they were gone.
Persistence is working through those thousands of relationship profiles, working through the ones which come about and may only be sex until You find that relationship which will work. It is that persistence which I have used re health, business and so much more that have just kept on going until despite having been turned away so much. Yes, it’s got frustrating, it’s learning to remember that the time is coming just need to work more.
Those goals and dreams also seek who Ben is too he just needs to grow more.
Thank you so much to my amazing wife for life Jenny for your constant love, thank you as well to the wonderful friends from mentoring for free for Your continued friendship. Especially Ken Klemm and Linda and Michael Dlouhy for all You do.
Your friend and mentor for life,
Big hugs my friends
West Ryde Nsw Australia
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