Ben Drake West Ryde, NSW, Australia
Ben its time to keep on going against the grain of the family. You’ve seen a number of fears rear their heads over the years. For years you listened to the junk and comments knowing no beta than those who often made comments or criticism in relation to Your choice or decision.
Ben you have heard so many comments like.
“What f@##$n job" although running a business and volunteering at times starting at 130 am to cover the overnight shift which few would do. They just want to knock what You are doing.
“We just don’t want Your wife being the only income” again running a business. Knowing that could walk back into a volunteering role saying and did just that.
“Do you know how big that is” discussing personal layout.
“I don’t do healthy” when asked for healthy meal.
There have been so many comments and more about dreams despite all these You have just kept on going. Often most of these comments have been from fear on it’s own.You have attempted to get the conversation going with those in your life by asking questions regularly saying your curious about a subject, it may of brought limited response its still done the job. You have delivered thousands of flyers to promote your business, thousands of other means. You know what haven’t stopped at all. You’ve just kept going, that’s how You met Jenny as well. You have refused to let fear run Your life.
That You just kept going through all the online dating profiles until met Jenny and from there the rest is history. Fear is going to stop You from looking at all those online dating profiles or you will keep on going. Fear will either stop you asking someone if they are interested in the latest promotion or stop You dead in your tracks.
I am refusing to stop even when do get the grouch growling as You have disturbed them for some reason. It takes guts to walk away from someone who is looking for an argument and keeps wanting that argument, you either have to live in fear of those fights or feel comfortable enough to walk away from them. Sure you gonna hear from the gallery about You walking off from a fight it’s their choice. They want to pull You back into their fear.
For years that was in control of own life living in fear. There is one which needs more work as much as you love Your family Ben they struggle with their own love. It’s who they are, their fear attempts to control You through saying junk like be hear by this time or this is going to happen. It’s all just fear.
Thanks to the amazing team from mentoring for free for being those loving wonderful friends who miss so much right now as I am only able to listen to the replay of calls for q little longer. A special thank you to my amazing mentors and friends for life Ken Klemm and Linda and Michael Dlouhy for all You do in sharing your own love, support and guidance. A big thank you to the most amazing loving wife for life Jenny for all You do.
Big hugs our friends,
Your friend and mentor for life,
West Ryde Nsw Australia
Helping families of Australia and New Zealand to live better lives
Ps love may of been the hardest emotion in own life as it’s who Ben is. It’s now building that loving amazing guy rather than letting him continue to be torn down through destructive comments from influences in own life.