Ben Drake West Ryde, NSW, Australia
How many decisions do You make daily. To get up, to do Your exercises, go to the gym, to eat healthy, to go to bed, brush Your teeth, what’s for dinner, lunch or a meal. If that meal is healthy or fast food, soft drink or water. For years I was trained and knew no better than the unhealthy wrong choices so that’s the decisions which made.
I made a decision a while back to leave where I am working to be a network marketer and model train expert allowing the health and family time that seek. A while back this choice would of been rough to make. Although right now I am beginning to understand that for the life that I seek it will be ok. It’s useless living in fear which is projected from those around us to stop us from living a dream life.
Hill says “The habit of INDECISION acquired because of the deficiencies of our school system goes with students into the occupations they choose—IF, in fact, they choose their occupations at all. Generally, young people just out of school seek any job that can be found. They take the first position they find because they have fallen into the habit of INDECISION. Ninety-eight out of every one hundred people working for wages today are in the positions they hold because they lacked the DEFINITENESS OF DECISION to PLAN A DEFINITE POSITION and the knowledge of how to choose an employer.”
That is so true of today when left school had no idea where wanted to go, these days I am aware of the direction which I am heading. I may still hear the comments saying that need to work for some reason or another. I choose to stop listening to those who have never built a business tell me what is wrong with my own choice and decision to help families to live better lives. I may choose to volunteer knowing full well in the end it’s going to be worth it in the end.
I choose to get married, to improve my health, the model railway layout that is going to be built, to be an entrepreneur. They are all my own decisions, there is going to be those who are going to have a destructive comment re what we have said towards our goal or dream. Someone else will believe in our dream too but we have to believe ourselves.
We need the faith that we will be ok no matter what happens, like Michael Dlouhy has said that we need to believe. When went away with a former partner it was my own decision that would have enough money for the whole trip and did. It was my own decision that the next woman who dated was gonna be my wife and now I am married. It was my own decision to leave the job which I am at now months ago and now I am seeing that come to pass. Knowing that the choice to be father of twins still remains and it’s going to happen. Just like moving to the gold coast of Queensland.
A huge thank you to my wonderful friends and family from mentoring for free who have helped me to learn those invaluable lessons and to realize those lessons learned. They are the means to creating that lifestyle desire. A special thanks to my mentors and friends for life Ken Klemm and Linda and Michael Dlouhy for Your help, love, guidance and support. A big thank you to my amazing wife for life Jenny for the dreams which You support and encourage to achieve and those lessons which you have shown.
Big hugs all my amazing friends for life,
Your friend and mentor for life,
West Ryde Nsw Australia
Helping families of Australia and New Zealand to live better lives